The Journey

Do you prefer being the driver or passenger in a vehicle? Life is a long and unpredictable journey, and throughout it, we play many roles. The key is knowing when to take the wheel, when to give directions, and when to simply sit back and trust the process. As children, we begin as backseat passenger, not responsible for decisions, but observing and learning from those in control.

As we grow especially in partnership like marriage, we move to the front seats. Husbands and wives are equals, sitting side by side. Sometimes one will take the role of driver, leading and making decisions, while the other becomes the front-seat passenger offering support, perspective, and guidance.

A good passenger isn't passive, they help the driver stay focused, offer directions, and ensure the journey stays on track. And a wise driver listens. But no one can drive forever. We all get tired. We all need rest. That's when it's crucial to have someone we trust who can take the wheel for a while. Yet too often, we hesitate to ask for help.

Are we too proud or too afraid to let go of control? There is strength in knowing when to switch roles. Sometimes leading, sometimes supporting. That's how we navigate life successfully together. So what are you playing right now? And are you willing to shift when the journey calls for it?

My Journey:

In most part of my life, I was the backseat passenger. It was the most comfortable place to be — I could relax, sleep and take no responsibility for the journey. Eventually, I moved into the driver's seat. But at first, I didn't want a front-seat passenger. I wanted full control over my life, to make decision without interference.

That changed when I got married. I came to understand the value of having someone in the front seat beside me. Not just for companionship, but for guidance, support, and shared responsibility. And sometimes, we switched roles. That experience humbled me. I learned that life isn't about controlling every turn. It is about sharing the journey.

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